Well, I think that's the way it is with being "available" (if youre a woman) or "looking" (if youre a man)for that special someone. You realize what you want that person to resemble, the qualities you want them to have, the height, the ethnicity, maybe the sense of humor-and guess what! you start seeing them everywhere. and whats even better, is they start to see you also.
Its all about where your focus is. BEFORE you bought that car, you never noticed how many of the same cars with the SAME color were being driven around-Now, since you've focused on it, you are SURROUNDED by them! LOL
Relationships and attracting that special person, works the same way. Lets continue to focus on who we want-how we want them, and we'll get exactly what we ask for!